Written in response to Writing 101, Day 6: The space to write….
My children were very young when I became a single mother—my youngest was 14 months old—but I have never stopped writing. I have “paused” every now and again when life becomes overwhelming, but I have written, at least a bit, through each stage of their lives. Because I also took on an online teaching position, I became accustomed to working with much distraction.
When the children were young, I would work and write while they played—sometimes in the other room, and sometimes right near me. Often, the children would have their various craft projects or drawings-in-progress splayed across the kitchen table; I would squeeze myself in, claiming a tiny little spot of table real estate, just big enough for my laptop. Crayons, markers, clay, googly eyes and cast-off drawings inched nearer with every movement they made. When they were quietly engaged in their own activities, I could write without a problem. However, I developed tactics to deal with noise and distraction.
On one particularly memorable day, I was sitting at the kitchen table working, and W was sitting across from me, bent over some project or another. He might have been about eight at the time. The other two were in the living room, and they were not being quiet, by any stretch of the imagination. I was working, but to keep my focus, I was dictating to myself as I typed.
I saw W look up from his project, so I watched him as I typed. He looked at me, cocked his head and narrowed his eyes as he studied me, pondering what to say. I stared back without pausing in my typing or my dictating. “Mum, can you type silently?” he asked me.
I raised my eyebrows in question and halted my dictation and hence, my typing. “Do you hear your brother and sister?” As if on cue, one of them squealed, and they both giggled. W nodded. “That is why I can’t type silently.” He held my gaze for a long moment before he sighed and turned back to his work.
Since then, I always try to type silently. But sometimes, when the distractions are just too much to handle, I have to type out loud.
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Oh I love that. Creative and effective. I can imagine the sigh. I have a sister who is Downs. She loves to read out loud and such, but if I figure out alternative ways to drown out certain noises, I am told to be quiet. It’s funny sometimes. But we do what we can to continue on.
It’s interesting… sometimes, the harder I try to stay in my head, the louder I have to type! 🙂
That makes sense. I find late at night when I’m typing, suddenly I feel like my arms and fingers and hands are not my own. And like I am manually moving someone else’s hands. I think getting stuck in your head, you have to break out of the silence. I totally get what you say.
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I have been accused of mumbling the words as I type as well – both at home and work. 🙂
I definitely mumble when I do it at work. At home, I am a bit louder. 😉
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